Are you full able to enjoy sx?

Serious question… Are you fully able to enjoy sex? 

Or when experiencing sex do you quickly get right into your head, with your inner dialogue saying things like “What is he thinking about this?” “How long til this is over?” “What do I need to grab from the grocery store for dinner tomorrow?” “Gosh, he never knows what to do to turn me on!" 

Maybe there's pressure to orgasm.. or pressure from not being able to orgasm at all. 

Most women experience this at some point… and for some women, this is just their normal experience of sex. 

These patterns prevent you from having amazing, passionate, mind-blowing, erotic, connective sex. 

They keep you doing the same things over and over again, which quickly gets old… and sex loses its exciting charge and starts to become something you dread. 

This makes a lot of women avoid sex entirely, or turn to faerie smut, scrolling, or other vices.

(No hate, because I def love me some Sarah J Maas ;)) 

But I'm here to tell you that NO woman HAS to experience ANY of these things. 

All you have to do is start shifting your habitual, go-to behaviors. 

Here's an example: 

Imagine if instead of eye-rolling as you go along with sex dispassionately… 

You knew exactly what you wanted from your partner and you allowed your primal feminine nature to take over as you whispered in his ear how to please you, what you wanted him to do next, and how good he was at making you wetttttt. 

Would he be expecting you to do this? 

Would YOUR MIND be expecting you to do this? 

Probably not. 

This creates such a pattern break for the sexual dynamic.. suddenly you have done something drastically different. 

By allowing your primal feminine nature to take over, your logical mind shifts off and your deeper instincts take over.. 

You feel powerful, you claim your worthiness of connection and satisfaction, and guess what… 

You probably get super wet and even more excited from this… Your body can't help it when you're living from your primal sexual nature instead of your mental chatter. 

Maybe you start to climb on top of your partner and gently scrape your fingers down his chest… 

You might even lose control as you ride him and bring yourself to ecstasy… He probably has no idea what is coming next from you and that excites him, too. 

Before you know it, you're both gasping for deeper breaths and moaning together. 

Pure desire takes over and you are merging with each other, losing all sense of time and space, and feeling the tingling magical sparkles of Source wrapping around you both. 

You see how this is such a different dynamic than what you usually do? 

Now, I must say… there are some situational intricacies here… 

If you do this out of nowhere with no warning or sexy hints dropped ahead of time, your partner may abso-frickin-lutely love it… or may be so caught off guard and honestly scared at how different you feel, that you may find yourself held at arm's length. 

But I think you get the idea, and you can adapt this to your own life and circumstance. 

Techniques like breathwork, learning your unique pleasure pathways, energy circulation, and filling your cup to overflowing through self-pleasure practices are very helpful for your sexual satisfaction in life and in partnership. 

But, when it comes to co-creating amazing, passionate sex and embodying your full life-force energy in all realms of life, one of the main keys is to unleash your true, raw, feminine primal energy to flow through your body. 

And trust me, this probably looks and feels very different than anything you can imagine ahead of time.

We are so disconnected from this aspect of our nature that this probably feels edgy for some of you to read… Thoughts of “I couldn't do THAT, that would be too much,” or “That would actually turn my husband way off.” 

If so, it means you are in a deeply-ingrained neural pathway of behavior and thought … which starts to bring you farther and farther away from the ecstatic connection you (we all) are capable of, even in long term partnership. 

We all have these neural pathways, thoughts, and behaviors that keep us from living the life and having the sex of our wildest dreams. 

If you ARE ready to go from having an “OK” sex life filled with mental chatter and boredom, into feeling like a goddess whose man will gladly serve you in any type of sex or pleasure you can imagine… 

You should totally join the SST .. 

This is a 4-week online guided pleasure temple experience to reclaim your sexual sovereignty.. And if you can't join live, you'll get the recordings if you sign up.. and you can experience the awakening/activation at a pace that works for you. 

The last day to sign up is this FRIDAY! Our first call is FRIDAY evening! 

Sing up before the doors close on this temple.. 

I am not sure if I will offer this unique experience again.. ever. This is so edgy for most women that the group is very intimate.. I want to see if it will be sustainable to offer long term. 

Hope to see you in the Temple! I can’t wait to see what you manifest by pouring into yourself in this way, sister :)