How to shift your sex drive quickly and easily
I want to speak to something I’ve seen a few times recently in clients and inquiries.
One of the hidden side effects of nervous system dysregation is low or non-existent s_x drive.
It’s heartbreaking because this is a major area in which women start to label themselves as “broken” or that they’re falling out of love.
Especially in longer term relationships where life has a chance to work its up and down magic on us, our nervous system will go into varying states of ease vs alert.
Some women actually desire intimacy more when their system is activated.
Some lose desire completely.
Either can be normal in a body that is currently wired for survival instead of thriving.
For women who lose their desire, it can be frustrating for your partner - especially if you have no way of describing what is happening to you.
The frustration of your partner can spiral your nervous system even deeper into survival, perpetuating the loop.
It’s not that you don’t want to connect, it’s just that your nervous system, your fascia, your blood flow, your body can’t relax enough to let anything in right now.
What I LOVE about this is that it doesn’t take months of therapy or counseling to shift this.
It doesn’t usually work to just throw on some new lingerie or fake excitement, either. (This actually makes your system feel even more discordant and unsafe.)
You don’t need to follow some daily ritual or pl_asure practice for this to shift.
In one session, specially geared toward this exact s_xual byproduct of dysregulation, we can release months, years, lifetimes of stored emotion and tension and open the channel back to connection.
No overthinking or rehashing every fight you’ve ever had.
Just dropping into the body.
After one session you can leave with
* more juiciness in your body (you can actually feel this instantly)
* natural return of desire
* a magnetic openness your partner will feel on an energetic level immediately.
I know this because I’ve seen it time and time again in client sessions (and also experienced it myself, of course).
It’s about helping your body feel safe enough to open these ple_sure channels again.
You deserve to feel good, my love.
I have 2 spots open this Saturday for an Activation Session.
DM me if your system needs this right now.
Rooting for you!
Ashley
